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The Most Critical Role Nobody Prepares You For

Flemming Goldbach05-Jun-2025

This post first appeared on my LinkedIn profile, sparked by a reflection on my own leadership journey — and what I wish I’d had back then.

I still remember the day I became a manager.

New title. New responsibilities. Same me.

No real training. No coaching. Just... figure it out.

What followed was a crash course in all the things business school doesn’t prepare you for:

  • Navigating conflict you didn’t cause
  • Balancing strategy and operations — simultaneously
  • Shifting from managing to leading
  • Supporting others while staying sane yourself
  • Trying to lead even when you feel like you're guessing

Middle management is one of the hardest — and most important — roles in any organization.

When I started promoting others into their first management roles, I tried to give them what I never had: coaching, encouragement, space to grow. But I was still learning. I had other responsibilities. It was never quite enough.

Looking back, I wish I could have offered them more — something structured, consistent, and always available when they needed it most.

We talk a lot about executive leadership. But the future of high-performing teams depends on how well we support the middle.

That’s why we built Work2gether AI: to give every manager — not just the ones at the top — access to real coaching, science-backed tools, and actionable insights that help them lead better in the moments that matter.

Middle managers deserve more. Their teams do too.

Lead better. Work2gether.

Flemming Goldbach

Founder of Work2gether AI. Writing about leadership, teams, and building better ways to support managers.

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